The hunt for the perfect gift – a tale as old as time! And finding thoughtful, exciting, and genuinely personal gift ideas for gay men is no exception.
Everyone’s tastes are a unique blend of personality, style, humour, and passions. We never want to stereotype anyone, which is exactly why we’ve put together a gay gift guide that celebrates individuality and champions some of our favourite LGBTQIA+ brands. From the fabulous to the funny, this guide covers it all.
Whether you’re shopping for a cheeky Secret Santa Christmas gift for a gay colleague, memorable wedding gift ideas for a his-and-his celebration, or something romantic for someone special, you’re in the right place.
Fashion and Grooming Gift Ideas for Gay Men
Clothing
The UK is home to an incredible selection of Pride-positive fashion designers and queer-inclusive brands. From cosy hoodies and slogan tees to fun jewellery, enamel pins and statement accessories, these brands offer style with substance – and many give back to LGBTQIA+ charities and community projects.
HOMO London
HOMO London is a bold, unapologetic queer fashion brand known for its playful designs and street-style edge. Their collections often feature witty slogans, vibrant prints, and empowering messages that celebrate identity and Pride year-round. Perfect for the man who loves to wear his personality on his sleeve (literally).
Rainbow & Co.
Rainbow & Co. creates colourful, inclusive clothing and accessories designed to uplift and empower. From subtle Pride-flag enamel pins to vibrant tees and cosy sweats, their pieces blend everyday wearability with affirming LGBTQIA+ representation. They also actively donate to queer charities, making every purchase feel good and do good.
Queer Existence is Resistance Enamel Pin from Rainbow & Co.
Underwear
Prowler
It’s impossible to think of gay underwear without picturing Prowler. With a wide range of socks, briefs, jockstraps, harnesses, and more, Prowler offers everything from cool and sexy to unapologetically bold. Whether you’re gifting something playful or something very adventurous, their iconic designs make Prowler a go-to choice for gay men who love stylish, confident underwear.
Fragrance
Who doesn’t love unwrapping a new scent? As Estée Lauder famously said: “Perfume is the invisible, unforgettable accessory.”
A fragrance gift is luxurious, personal, and always appreciated.
Jean Paul Gaultier – Le Male
A true classic adored by men of all sexualities for decades, Le Male is bold, sensual, and instantly recognisable. With sweet undertones of vanilla blended with lavender, mint, and bergamot, it’s a masculine-yet-playful eau de toilette that feels equally comforting and seductive. The iconic torso bottle pays homage to the sailor – muse to designer and gay icon Jean Paul Gaultier. Despite launching in 1995, its timeless appeal makes Le Male a perfect fragrance gift idea for gay men in 2025.
Skincare
Skincare has never been more popular, and modern formulas make it easier than ever to gift high-quality products without needing to be someone’s dermatologist. A refreshing mist, nourishing moisturiser, or simple starter set can make a thoughtful self-care surprise.
The Inkey List
The Inkey List is known for its inclusive, non-gendered approach to skincare. With clear education-led formulas, they simplify skincare for everyone, offering effective serums, cleansers, and treatments without unnecessary fluff. Their products focus on ingredients that work, making them great gifts for men who want results without a complicated routine.
Intro Routine for Hydrated Skin
Lush
Lush is the ultimate feel-good gifting brand – and honestly, who doesn’t love a bath bomb? Handmade, ethically sourced, and bursting with fragrance, their bath, body, and skincare goodies make self-care fun. From indulgent bath treats to fresh face masks and colourful soaps, a Lush gift is perfect for anyone who loves a pampering moment (or needs one!).
Home Décor Gift Ideas for Gay Men
A stylish home is a stylish mind - or so the saying goes! For many gay men, home décor is a chance to express personality, creativity, humour, and Pride. From bold artwork to quirky home accessories, these décor gifts make thoughtful choices for birthdays, housewarmings, anniversaries, or those “just because” moments.
Artwork
Stoggaf
Stoggaf is a contemporary queer-led art brand known for its bold, colourful, and unapologetically playful designs. Their artwork often blends humour, pop culture references, Pride imagery, and stylish minimalism, making their prints perfect for brightening up living rooms, bedrooms, and creative spaces. Stoggaf’s pieces make fantastic gift ideas for gay men who appreciate art that feels modern, cheeky, and culturally aware.
Killer Queen - Illustration Fine Art Print
The Brighton Birdcage – Bright 'n Gay Gifts
The Brighton Birdcage celebrates all things vibrant, camp, and unapologetically queer. Their Bright ’n Gay collection features uplifting artwork, novelty pieces, and colourful décor that brings instant joy to any space. Whether it’s rainbow-forward prints, tongue-in-cheek designs, or accessories that radiate personality, these items make brilliant gifts for anyone who loves a home filled with character and Pride.
Homeware
Small touches can make a big difference. These homeware gifts combine practicality with personality, making them excellent picks for gay partners, friends, or house-proud colleagues.
Scented Candles
A luxurious scented candle is always a winner, calming, romantic, and wonderful for setting the mood. Choose masc-leaning scents like cedar, bergamot, and tobacco, or go bold with florals and gourmand aromas. A great option for anyone who loves self-care, cosy nights in, or a beautifully scented home.
Stylish Planters & Indoor Plants
Plants bring life to any room, and a beautiful ceramic or metal planter makes the gift feel elevated. From sculptural succulents to leafy statement plants, greenery adds freshness, calm, and personality to a home or desk.
Gifts for Gay Men Under £20
Finding the perfect present doesn’t have to break the bank. If you’re looking for small gifts, Christmas stocking fillers, or a fab Secret Santa gift idea for a gay colleague, there are plenty of affordable options that still feel thoughtful and fun. Both The Pride Shop and Gay Pride Shop are fantastic places to browse, offering accessories, Pride-themed items, games, and quirky décor at budget-friendly prices.
Funny Gifts for Gay Men
If they love a bit of sass, camp humour, or something that will make them laugh out loud, a funny gift is always a hit. These options are perfect for Secret Santa, birthdays, or for the friend who’s delightfully dramatic.
Loud & Proud Game
A cheeky and energetic party game designed with queer humour at the core. The Loud & Proud game is ideal for game nights, pre-drinks, or evenings when you just want something silly and social. It’s fun, inclusive, and guaranteed to get everyone giggling.
“F*ck Off” Eye Mask
Perfect for the gay man who values his beauty sleep (or just loves making a statement). This bold purple-patterned eye mask is equal parts practical and playful, making it a brilliant novelty gift that’s sure to get a reaction.
Eye Mask - F*ck Off (Purple Pattern)
Small Gifts for Gay Men
Thoughtful doesn’t have to mean extravagant, sometimes the best presents are stylish, simple, and full of Pride.
Donation to an LGBTQ+ Organisation
One of the most meaningful gifts you can give is a donation made in someone’s name. Supporting LGBTQ+ charities and organisations makes a real impact, helping fund community services, mental health support, advocacy work, and more. It’s a heartfelt option for birthdays, anniversaries, and especially Christmas.
Books
Books always make elegant, thoughtful gifts.
Pride: The Story of the LGBTQ Equality Movement – Matthew Todd
A powerful and beautifully compiled look at the LGBTQ+ rights movement, from early activism to modern-day campaigns. Packed with photography and personal stories, it’s an inspiring and educational gift for anyone interested in queer history, progress, and Pride.
Cinema Voucher
A cinema gift voucher is simple, flexible, and always appreciated. Whether they’re into rom-coms, indie films, queer cinema, or the latest blockbuster, it's the perfect excuse for a self-care night, popcorn included.
Boyfriend Gift Guide
When you’re shopping for your boyfriend, partner, or husband, you want something that feels personal, meaningful, and a little bit magical. Whether it’s Valentine’s Day, a birthday, an anniversary, or just because, these gift ideas for a gay boyfriend strike the perfect balance between romance, adventure, and fun.
Gay Valentine’s Gifts for Him
Valentine’s Day gifts don’t need to be cliché, thoughtful experiences, personalised surprises, and romantic getaways can make your celebration unforgettable.
Experiences and Things To Do Together
Experiences create memories. These ideas are perfect for couples who love adventure, culture, or simply spending meaningful time together.
Visit Soho, London
For nightlife, queer culture, and iconic LGBTQ+ history, there’s nothing quite like a romantic day (or weekend) in Soho. Enjoy cocktails, drag shows, independent shops, and that unmistakable London buzz, ideal for a fun, flirtatious date.
Celebrate Gay Pride Together
Whether it’s London Pride, Brighton Pride, or a local celebration, attending Pride together makes for a powerful, uplifting experience. Think parades, music, community spirit, and unforgettable moments, a beautiful way to celebrate love out loud.
Romantic Hotels & Getaways
A getaway is one of the most romantic gay Valentine’s gifts for him you can choose.
The Crazy Bear Hotel
Known for lavish interiors, indulgent bathtubs, and over-the-top luxury, The Crazy Bear is perfect for couples who love drama, opulence, and a little escapism. Great for anniversaries, Valentine’s, or a surprise weekend away.
LGBTQ+ Positive Romantic UK Getaways
Here are two UK destinations known for being welcoming, cosy, and romantic:
Brighton Seafront Retreat
The UK’s (un)official gay capital, Brighton is packed with LGBTQ+ nightlife, independent shops, and insta-worthy seaside views. Book a boutique hotel near the pier for the perfect mix of romance and adventure.
The Lake District – Cabins
For couples who love nature, a private cabin or lodge overlooking the Lakes makes an idyllic retreat. Think hot tubs, mountain walks, and peaceful evenings, a dreamy escape for two.
Gay-Friendly European Travel
For a bigger, more luxurious travel gift, Europe offers everything from sun soaked and sandy to sight-seeing city breaks.
Sitges, Spain is a sun-soaked LGBTQ+ hotspot near Barcelona, Sitges is famous for its golden beaches, nightlife, boutique hotels, and welcoming queer community. It’s perfect for romantic escapes, beach holidays, or a sexy weekend in the sun.
Couples Activities
For boyfriends who prefer experiences over objects, these couple-focused activities make amazing gifts:
Vineyard Tour & Wine Tasting
Spend an afternoon exploring a vineyard, learning about wine production, and enjoying tastings together. Perfect for a sophisticated, romantic date with plenty of photo opportunities.
Couples Spa Day
Relaxing massages, steamy saunas, fluffy robes — a spa day is the ultimate shared pampering experience. Great for de-stressing, reconnecting, and enjoying quality time.
Funny Valentine’s or Birthday Gifts for Your Gay Boyfriend
Romance is great, but sometimes the best gifts are the ones that make him laugh.
Personalised T-Shirt
Add an inside joke, a cute photo, a line from your favourite song, or something cheeky, personalised tees make heartfelt and humorous gifts he’ll actually wear. If you share a pet together, Threadheads do custom bootleg pet printed tees which are sure to get the giggles going.
Custom Portrait
A custom illustration of you both, romantic, funny, cartoon-style, or stylised, makes a truly unique present. It’s personal, sentimental, and ideal for anniversaries, birthdays, or Valentine’s Day.
Prowler Socks
Fun, fashionable, and full of personality, Prowler socks are a brilliant small gift for your boyfriend. Whether you choose something cute, colourful, or a little cheeky, they’re a playful way to add flair to his everyday look.
Naughty Gifts for Him
We’ve finally got to our favourite section of the list. Here we’ll run you through all those gift ideas for the more intimate moments in life. We’ve researched some luxurious gay BF gifts guaranteed to increase your sexual pleasure.
With our help, you and your partner will be reaching mind-blowing orgasms in no time at all.
Poppers
The most famous worldwide brand of room odorisers, Liquid Gold, is a luxurious scent that cuts through others – a perfect room aroma. Liquid Gold will ignite the libidos in the room, and the refreshing aromatic scent helps to improve virility and sexual function. This popper is perfect for setting a romantic, passionate mood wherever and whenever the urge takes you.
The Double Scorpio collection are iconic, powerful room odourisers, guaranteed to turn the heat up and get everyone hot under the collar. The aromatic fragrances instantly command the room and the noses of everybody present.
If you’re looking for a naughty gift, this could be a winner. Double Scorpio ensures that the party starts with a rush and ends with a bang!
Lube
Prowler RED Water is a water-based lube that will transform your sex life. It’s not an exaggeration to say that every gay man knows the importance of a good lube. If you don’t have one on hand you’re seriously missing out. Prowler RED Water is a body-safe lube compatible with latex condoms and silicone sex toys. It’s long-lasting and slick – keeping you safe and friction-free for hours of fun.
Prowler RED Fisting Butter is a high-quality anal lubricant that will shake up your bedroom routine. It works with your natural lubricants to moisturise and smooth the skin, enhancing sexual pleasure. It’s a long-lasting butter that’s easy to clean up, meaning you and your lover can relax and focus more on the things you love.
Adult Toys
Here we have the Stallion, a realistic dildo from the experts at Prowler. This dildo comes in three sizes, and the suction base makes it ideal for solo use in the shower or couples play.
Introducing this toy into the bedroom is the gift that will keep giving – the realistic design heightens the experience, and it’s sure to satisfy you and your boyfriend.
What To Buy A Man Who’s Hard To Buy For?
It’s hard to find the perfect gift for that guy that says he has everything. When up against one of these men, we say: get creative! Getting a joke gift for your recipient is often the best route, but you can also go for something useful. Think of something small that won’t clutter their lifestyle, and that will improve it in some unique way. Whether it’s funny, heartfelt or just plain practical, they’ll appreciate the effort you’ve gone to.
What Do Gay Guys Like As Gifts?
Whether you’re straight and looking for gifts for gay men or gay and looking for gay gifts for a boyfriend, it’s important to remember that, ultimately, a good gift has thought and meaning behind it. Gifts with a personal touch will mean so much more to the giftee – after all, it’s the thought that counts! Buying unique, personalised gifts for LGBT friends is much more enjoyable for both parties than getting a generic gift from amazon, and will be appreciated a lot more.
